Philip 3 :12; 4:12.
The road to success is not straight. There is a curve called Failure, a loop called Confusion, speed bumps called Friends, red lights called Enemies, caution lights called Family. You will have flat tyres called Jobs. But, if you have a spare wheel called Determination, an engine called Perseverance, insurance called Faith, a driver called Jesus, you will make it to a place called Success.
Yes the Lord leads each one of us not in the same road...but same destiny.
The Lord uses our friends, our enemies, our failures, etc to bring to pass HIS WILL.
Thus , our aim and desire should be to Delight and Do His Will alone and not our Success, till we reach the Place of Completion.